HER Lesbian, bi & queer dating - Connect LGBTQ+ women

Join more than 13 million+ lesbian, bisexual, trans, and queer individuals on HER - the LGBTQIA+ community's most popular dating app & platform in the world. We firmly believe that everyone deserves to love and be loved, create friendships, and establish meaningful relationships within the LGBTQIA+ community.

HER originated as a lesbian dating app made by and for lesbian & queer womxn. We have since transformed into an LGBTQIA+ platform representing all shades of the rainbow. We take pride in becoming more than just a 'swipe right' lesbian dating app. Our goal is to develop into the premier LGBTQ platform, and we are dedicated to achieving this goal.

❤️ Dating – Enjoy top-notch online lesbian dating experiences & connect with queer individuals globally.

❤️ LGBTQ+ News Feed – Share important news and exciting updates about the LGBTIQ+ community.

❤️ Communities – Engage in smaller group chats based on shared interests or hobbies.

❤️ Parties – HER team organizes events in 15 cities worldwide (from London to LA). Stay updated on upcoming events near you and access exclusive discounts on tickets.

At its core, HER is a free dating app designed for lesbians and LGBTQ+ members. All essential features of the app are completely free, making it inclusive for everyone to find their significant other or community. With the free version, users can add friends, browse profiles, initiate chats, explore events, and join various communities.

Additionally, a premium subscription offers a range of enhanced features:

– Ad-free browsing

– Real-time visibility of online users

– Extra search filters

– Incognito mode

– And much more!

Download HER to become part of a community that advocates for LGBTQ+ equality and empowerment. Whether you seek a partner, a date, or new friends, the HER community is warm and supportive.

HER is a safe space where you can be authentic, regardless of your sexual orientation or gender identity. It's a secure haven where everyone is encouraged to embrace their true selves.

Contrary to misconceptions, HER is an inclusive and secure platform for dating and chatting for all queer individuals. While initially a lesbian dating app, it has expanded into a hub for LGBTQIA+ folks, welcoming cis women, trans women, trans men, non-binary individuals, and gender non-conforming people. Share your story, discover local happenings, engage with the community, and live your best life!

HER is a place where every shade of the rainbow can coalesce.

FAQ

Sending and Receiving Comments

Running across a potential match on HER is always an exciting moment. Maybe one of our pride pins on their profile caught your eye, or a funny line in their bio, perhaps a quick-witted answer to a question that made you swoon. No matter the cause, you can now share how you feel when you send a like using HER’s new comment feature.

Sending a comment to someone allows you to stand out from the crowd by highlighting something you liked about them in their profile. Our research shows that users who send comments to matches have a higher chance of matching and engaging in meaningful conversations. Nerdy stuff aside, It's also a thoughtful way to show someone you're interested in them

Read on to learn how to send a comment on HER and how to view the ones you've received.

How to Send a Comment

To send a comment to a potential match, locate the element of their profile you'd like to comment on. Anything you can reply to will have an arrow and a prompt to "Comment on this". Enter your message (keep in mind your character limit is up to 300 characters max) and select the purple "up" arrow to send your message. Keep in mind that this is just the same as sending a like so be sure to only send comments to profiles you're interested in potentially matching with.

How to Receive a Comment

When you receive a comment from a potential match, you’ll receive a notification from us alerting you to the new message. Once inside the app, you will also see a red notification indicator on the bell icon on the lower righthand side of your screen. Selecting the bell icon will bring you to your notifications section. From the notifications section, you can view the most recently received comment by selecting your ‘Likes’ tab.

If you’re interested in returning a message you can select the heart icon to message your match back. By selecting ‘X’, the comment and its sender will be removed from your list of likes.

How Do I Create An Account?

iOS Devices

Phone Number - (Recommended Method. Text Message & Data Rates May Apply)

Instagram

Apple ID

- Single tap login

- As long as your device (iPhone, iPad) is logged into iCloud, you are good!

Android Devices

Phone Number - (Recommended Method. Text Message & Data Rates May Apply)

Instagram

Google Sign-On

Once you've nailed down your sign-up method, it's time for the real fun: sprucing up your profile! Show off all of your best angles with profile pictures, share some interesting facts about yourself, and craft a bio that showcases your unique personality and all the things that you’re looking for.

How Do I Verify My Profile?

Verifying My Account

Looking to verify your profile? We think that's a great idea! Verified users on HER get twice the likes. Why? Because having a verified profile badge shows our users that you're a real person looking for real connections. Stand out from the fakes and photo verify your account to take it to the next level:

1.  Before you begin, if you haven't already, please make sure you have a clear face photo as your profile picture so we have something to verify your photo against. Not having a face photo on your account is against our community guidelines and is one of the top reasons verifications can fail. 

2.  Now that you have a profile picture set. Navigate to your 'Settings' menu. 

3.  Towards the top of your menu you should see an option that says 'Verify Profile'. If you haven't verified your account it will have a red exclamation point by it and should look similar to this:

4.  After you tap 'Verify Profile' you will see a series of prompts instructing you to submit a selfie matching a randomized pose we assign to you. This part is extremely important so we're giving you a few tips to make sure you're successful:

Take this photo in a bright area where your face is visible and in focus. 

Make sure your face is unobstructed. (No face masks, no sunglasses, no hats covering your face)

Double-check that your pose matches up with the pose we assigned and you are clearly in the frame. 

5.  Voila! That wasn't so bad, right? We'll show you the picture you took next to the pose you were assigned and ask you to confirm it looks good before you confirm and submit it to our Trust & Safety Team. You will receive an alert that says you're verification is pending. 

Why Was My Account Verification Rejected?

If you received the message "Unable to Verify" this means that your account was not able to be verified because of one of the following reasons: 

The photo submitted for verification was not clear enough. Tip: Double-check and ensure you're taking the photo in a bright area where you are in focus and your face is unobstructed.

The pose was off. Tip: Before submitting ensure your pose matches the model photo provided.

The photo submitted doesn't match the photos on the profile. Sorry, not sorry! HER is a catfish-free zone.

There are no photos on the profile to verify you with. Tip: Have clear profile photos showing your face and who you are. Did you know that profiles with photos get 7x more likes?

Mistakes happen. Not to worry. We're willing to give this another shot if you are. Go to your settings and select the 'Verify My Account' option to return to the original verification flow.