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Welcome to the world of Hily

This is where love meets algorithms! Why settle for swiping left and right when you can find your person right here? 🚀 In a sea of dating apps, Hily stands out like a unicorn in a field of horses. Picture this: a cupid-like algorithm working tirelessly in the background to match you with verified, single locals only. No more endless scrolling through profiles - just pure companionships and fun love stories waiting to unfold.

Ever dreamed of chatting and flirting like a pro? With Hily icebreakers at your disposal, you'll be weaving conversations smoother than butter on a warm pancake. Plus, why limit yourself to one type of relationship when you can choose from a variety of options - whether it's casual dating, long-term commitment, or simply making new friends?

Let's talk compatibility. Hily doesn't just pair you up randomly; it analyzes zodiac synastry to add a touch of astrological fun to your dating experience. Who knew stars could play such a role in finding your perfect match?

And safety? Hily isn't cutting any corners there. With a focus on creating a secure and enjoyable environment, all interactions are designed to be as safe as they are exciting. So, worry not about navigating the world of online dating because Hily has got your back!

Ready to dive into the world of Hily and meet new people from a vibrant community? Whether you're in search of true love, short-term excitement, or a chance to network and connect with local singles, Hily offers all the tools you need to make it happen. So, why keep swiping aimlessly when you can let Hily lead you to that special someone? 💌

Tips on How to Start a Conversation on a Dating App

If you find yourself struggling to come up with an engaging starter message, even after reading a match’s profile, here are some tips and examples.

1. Use Ready-Made Icebreakers

On Hily, you can choose from the set of suggested “icebreakers.” If you want, you can look at and re-fashion a bit so they don’t look like you are “stealing.” Also, the Internet is a great source for suggested messages.

The dating app divides these icebreakers into categories so that you can choose the purpose and the tone of your opening line. And there are so many more aspects to personality, you may want to stick with these icebreakers for a while or embellish them, depending on the responses you get.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

These are some of the best questions because they “force” a longer answer. And the longer the answer you get, the more you will get to know. People tend to respond to these types of questions with more than a one-sentence answer, and that will lead to good conversations.

Here are some examples of such questions:

- What is your idea of a great weekend?

- What do you like to do best when out with your friends?

- What is something you are passionate about?

These are smart questions because, when you get the response, you can respond with your answer to the same question. Usually, this conversation will lead to deeper questions.

3. Try Questions About Their Lives and Feelings

These are also somewhat open-ended, and they should elicit more than a simple phrase in response:

- How many things are on your bucket list, and how many of them have you managed to cross off? What’s next for you?

- Do you have the job/career you really want, or do you have a dream job you want to have one day?

- Do you have some talent or interest that not many know about?

- Who is your favorite family member? (Note: this is much better than just asking if family is important, which will bring a “yes” or “no” and not anything else.)

- Name the three most important qualities a person should have.

One of the benefits of questions like these is that a person will “feel heard,” believing that someone is actually interested in what they have to say. They think, “This is someone I might be able to find a real connection with.”

4. Relying on Humor to Give You a “Leg Up”

You don’t need a unique sense of humor to stand out. Just using more normal humor will probably bring a smile and a reply.

One word of caution here: If you think a humorous question might be inappropriate, err on that side of caution.

Try these or similar variations:

- What would your friends warn me about you?

- What’s the worst thing you got caught for? You tell me yours, and I’ll tell you mine.

- What’s the worst excuse you have ever given to get out of something?

- How are you preparing for the zombie apocalypse?

- What keeps showing up on your “to-do” list because you never actually do it? Mine is…

5. Play the Choices Game

Here’s a method of proactively determining things about someone’s personality and deciding if their values, interests, and priorities are a match for yours. These may be things you want to know before you ever ask for that first date IRL or move forward to more meaningful connections or a more serious commitment that would involve them potentially meeting your friends and family.

This “would you rather” game can give you a better idea of their priorities and possibly uncover someone’s motive for the relationship they want.

Here are some choice questions that are bound to provide information on a potential match:

- If you have an entirely free day off, would you rather take a road trip or stay home watching Netflix?

- Would you rather be able to go back and change your past or control your future?

- Would you rather have more money or more time?

- If given the choice of two superpowers, would you rather be able to read minds or fly?

- Would you rather live in the city or the country?

- Would you rather go without music or without movies?

- Would you rather be your own boss or work for someone else?

- Would you rather figure things out on your own or ask for help?

- Would you rather give up your favorite song or your favorite movie?

- Would you rather have a chef or a maid?

- Would you rather be smart or funny?

This is a long list, but you should be able to pick some that would show you how this person thinks and views life. Think about what is important to you and form your own choice questions. And be ready to give your answers to these same questions.